好的教养会体目前生活的很多方面。
对服务职员心存感谢；进出大门时，为身后的人扶一下门；不在公共场所高声喧哗；了解控制情绪，不骂脏话；咳嗽、打喷嚏时捂住嘴
生活工作中注意这类细节，会取得大家的尊重，也会叫你遇到更好的自己。
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Be on time. Always keep to time when honoring a meeting, date or event. Being on time shows your respect for other peoples time.
守时是个好习惯。无论是开会、赴约，迟到都不好，这也是对其他按时到场的人的不尊重。
When you show up late, it says much about your personality and the kind of regard you show important things.
是不是守时能反映你的为人，与你对待要紧事务的态度。
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In public, it is kind to hold the door open for others, especially when you see someone with arms full or who might have obvious difficulty entering.
在公共场所，遇见带孩子或手里拿着东西的路人，帮他们扶下门。
Never allow a door to slam on anyone following you.
勿不管身后人随便关门或放手门帘。
不过有一点应该注意：
Avoid the awkwardness of prematurely1 holding a door open when someone is a certain distance away. This might cause them to hurry unnecessarily.
身后的人还在较远的地方时，就别打开门等着了，这会让其他人不能不快步走过来。
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Be kind to people who serve you. Always say thank you to waiters, cashiers and food delivery staff.
对提供服务的职员表示感谢。上菜时的员工、付款时的收银员、送外卖的送快餐员，向他们说声谢谢。
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Respect the receptionist. It is kind to smile and acknowledge them when they are easily ignored by most people.
对门房、迎宾有礼貌，起码点头笑一下，他们总是是最易被忽略的人。
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Be attentive2 when other people are speaking to you. Keep eye contact, rather than rummaging3 through your bag or letting your attention drift away.
在同其他人谈话的时候，维持注意力集中，最好能微笑看着他们的双眼，而不是翻东西看书报，心神不定。
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Remove your headphones before you speak to someone.
戴着耳机的时候不和別人说话，说话的时候拿掉耳机。
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At the end of a phone call with your boss or people older than you, its proper to make sure they hang up the phone first.
与长辈或上级通话结束时，等他们先挂断电话。
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Tell people theyre on a speakerphone. alert the person youre speaking with that others are present.
假如你用免提，要告知他们他讲话其他人也能听到，最好关上门。
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Dont interrupt people when they talk. Hear them out before stating your own opinion.
不随意打断別人的谈话，先听完他们的发言，再讲解我们的看法。
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Show respect to other people. Allow them to voice their opinions without argument, even though you may disagree with them. Use your reasoning skills and eloquence4 rather than raised volume to convince others.
尊重别人的看法和怎么看，即便自己不可以同意或赞同，也不当着别人的面指责他们是瞎说、废话、胡说八道等，而是陈述己见，剖析事物，讲清道理。
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Do not swear at or insult people, even if you are having an argument.
不说脏话，即便发生争执也不用侮辱性词语。
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Have a big heart avoid petty feuds5 with your friends or colleagues.
与人相处胸襟开阔，不会由于一点小事和朋友、同事闹建议，甚至断绝来往。
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Wait for the green light before you cross the road. Dont hog6 the emergency lane, even when you are caught in a traffic jam.
过马路静心等待红绿灯；开车堵的话也不抢占应对车道。
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Drive slower in the rain, especially when old people, children or dogs are nearby.
在下雨天开车要减慢行车速度，车前有老人、孩子、宠物时放慢行车速度。
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When in public, dont play music or watch videos on your mobile devices with the speakers on.
公共场所，最好不要用手机外放听歌或看视频。
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When you leave a restaurant or library, dont forget to put your chair back quietly.
在餐厅或图书馆离开座位时，轻轻把椅子放回原位。
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Dont talk too loud in public, especially at night, when slight noises could be a nuisance to many people.
在公共场合，注意自己说话的声音有没影响到別人。特别是夜晚，微小的声响也会干扰别人。
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Dont judge people. Respect the fact that everyone is different.
不随意评论其他人，尊重別人的不同。
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Dont show off, even if you are privileged in some way. Stay humble7.
在与人交往相处时，不强调个人特殊的一面，即便有资本，也不要有意表现我们的优越感。
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Table manners matter. Refrain from smacking8 your mouth, or poking9 around the dishes. Dont waste food.
吃饭不吧唧嘴、不翻菜、不剩米粒。
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Cover your mouth with your hand or napkin when coughing, yawning or sneezing.
咳嗽、打哈欠、打喷嚏时捂住嘴巴。
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If youre seated at a table with eight or fewer guests, wait until everyone is served and for the host to begin eating before you dig in.
假如和8个以下的人同桌吃饭，等其他人的菜都上齐、主人开吃之后再开动。
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Dont make a big deal of saying you dont drink. Simply place your fingertips on the rim10 of the glass and say, Not today, thanks. This implies no judgment11 of those who wish to imbibe12.
假如不喝酒，就直接说今天不喝了，谢谢。不需要强调自己不喜欢喝酒，如此会让想喝酒的人尴尬。
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If youre in a situation where youd excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, you should also excuse yourself before reaching for your phone.
吃饭的时候，去卫生间要打声招呼，那样玩手机也一样。用手机之前最好跟他们打个招呼。
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Clean up after your dog when taking it for a walk.
带宠物外出时，准时打扫宠物的粪便，维持地面干净。
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Keep your dog on a leash13, and never say, I dont need one, because it doesnt bite.
遛狗的时候牵绳，永远別说我家狗不咬人，所以不需要狗绳。
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Apologize if your dog scares a passerby14 by barking or running around.
宠物的叫声或冲撞吓到路人，作为主人应准时道歉。
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When passing scissors or knives to others, be sure not to point the sharp end at them.
递剪刀、刀子等物品时把尖锐的一边朝哪个方向自己。
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Dont microwave foods that have a peculiar15 smell.
在公司里，别用微波炉加热有异味的食物。
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If all you have to say in your email reply is Thanks, refrain from sending it. Youre just clogging16 an inbox.
回邮件时别只说一个谢谢，而没别的信息，这是在给其他人制造垃圾邮件。
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Take care of children and respect women and your elders at all times.
不论何时何地，对妇女、儿童及上了年龄的老人，一直表示出关心并给予最大的照顾和便捷。
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When walking on the sidewalk, be sure to give your company the side farthest from the road.
在人行道上靠外侧行走，把同伴护在内侧。
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Be careful with your shopping carts in a supermarket. Do not roll over others feet or run into someone, and slow down when passing a child.
去超市推购物车时，不要撞到、蹭到或者压到其他人的脚；经过小朋友的时候要放慢速度，伸手护一下。
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When you are on a crowded subway, hold your backpack in front of you to avoid causing inconvenience for other passengers. If you are carrying something cold, hot or sharp, be careful to keep it away from other peoples legs.
地铁人多时，可以把双肩包背在前面，防止碰到其他人，假如手中提有冰的、热的或尖锐的物品，注意不要碰到其他人的腿。
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Let people off the elevator first, and hold the door for others before you board.
让其他人先出电梯，上电梯的时候也应该想到为其他人扶住门。
